My friend told me some pretty explicit things and I felt weird. I like him and he likes me too but I'm not attracted to him in a sexual way. He wants to "hang out" soon and now I don't want to cause he kinda crossed the line. He's supercool and fun though. I sent a provocative picture to him once but I was drunk (and heartbroken over a dude) and I guess that made it seem I am DTF and whatnot. UGH. I feel like a bad person.
Let him know you aren’t comfortable with those kinds of conversations. Otherwise he’ll keep thinking you’re cool with it and keep doing it. If you don’t say anything, he’ll never know.
If you don’t feel comfortable hanging out with him, then don’t. Or if you still want to hang out with him, make it in a public place or a group hang.
You do not have to do anything you are not comfortable with!!
And that does not make you a bad person! Do not let him make you feel guilty about anything! And if he does that makes him a piece of shit and you shouldn’t be wasting time on him.
So I'm 13, and I'm a terrible person. I send naked pictures to guys who are too old for me (not like 30 but 17/18). And it makes me wonder, if they want to see me naked why can't I just get a normal boyfriend like all my skinny friends? I hate sending naked pictures, it makes me want to rip out my heart. But I do it because it's the only time I get compliments from someone. No one ever calls me pretty when I'm wearing clothes, hell my friends only compliment me when I'm wearing makeup and (cont)
(Don’t) and have my hair straightened and shit. I feel so ugly. And then I do dance and cheer and everyone refers to me as the “big, fat, and tall white one”. (Bc I go to school with a bunch of thigh gapping Asian kids) I hate it. I hate everything. I hate me. I just wish I were dead.
DO NOT SEND NAKED PICTURES!! Especially if you do not feel comfortable sending them!!
Your worth and beauty is not defined by how others perceive you. If they can’t see how beautiful you are, that’s THEIR problem. Not yours.
Your body is going to be going through a lot of changes and you may not feel good about yourself but you’ll be okay. Just know that you are not alone and that you are beautiful no matter what!
As long as you know you’re beautiful, that is all that matters!
Sending you lots of positive vibes and hugs your way, love!
I believe the reason you get so much hate is because you promote "gloryfing obesity" which is the same as gloryfing anorexia and bulimia. I can tell you from experience that gloryfing obesity isn't the way to go, my mother was just like you at your age, and right now she can't walk or even wipe herself because being obese has damaged her health. Anyway, it's your life and you can do whatever you want, just know that you'll get hate because promoting obesity is not promoting self-love.
I don’t give a flying fuck about your “experience”. You don’t know anything about me. Just because that happened to your mother doesn’t mean it happens to all fat people. All you have to go by is my appearance. You know jack shit about my health. All you have are assumptions.
Get outta here with your fat shaming assuming ass.
Hi, I just thought I would pop over and say how much I admire how strong your being with these people fat shaming, I would have crumbled. You are a very inspirational and beautiful human being and I hope one day, people like this realize how amazing you and fellow larger ladies are. I am envious of how beautiful and confident you are and I love you and your blog. Keep smiling beautiful. :) <3 xx
ugh! i hate all these creeps harassing you on your blog. they need to gtfo. a message to all the weirdos: fat women are beautiful human beings, not your fetish. p.s. i love you and your lovely blog! keep smiling(: