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I have no style! I'm always worried about looking fat from the side and its so dumb cause my 400 pound ass doesn't look any slimmer from the front. How can I get over this? I have cute clothes but I'm worried about my arms cause they have a roll like the michellin man. I wish I could feel comfortable showing my arms and side belly instead of hiding in unflattering t-shirts :(
I’m fat all over. Whether it’s from the side, front, back, above, below, diagonally, whatever. I’m fat. There’s no use in trying to cover it because we all know it’s there. I’m fooling no one by trying to hide it.
So if we all know it’s there, why should I not where what I want? Why should I walk around being uncomfortable and covering myself up? Why should I hide myself for the sake of others? The answer is, I shouldn’t!
I too have Michellin Man arms:
But I can’t let that stop me from enjoying fashion and wearing what makes me feel good about myself.
I’m not saying it’s going to be an easy journey to self love, but it is possible. Start out slow. Go from full sleeve > 3/4 sleeve > 1/2 sleeve > 1/4 sleeve > sleeveless! It’s all about baby steps!
So wear whatever the hell you want because it’s YOUR body and you should be able to decorate it however you want! Who cares what anyone else thinks. They don’t have to look at you if they don’t want to. And if they have a problem with it, it’s THEIR problem!
Step by step, day by day you’ll learn to love your body. There might be some bad days mixed in there, we all have them, but it’ll get easier!